I loved my first therapist, she was exactly what I needed at that time in my life. A steady grandmotherly figure, who held me gently whilst I figured out some of who I was back then and some of who I have aways been. Since then I’ve worked with other incredible women. I have been fond of all of them, but some I have actually had love for. If you are working with a therapist that you love, they might actually be the right person for you.
Let me explain ……
Working relationally, authentically, and in an attuned and attached way, clients and therapists alike can have a felt experience of love. Quick caveat- This has nothing to do with anything unsafe or unethical, because what i’m talking about is a powerful and potent, safe, relationship which allows for real healing and growth.